So my sister who has a friend who tried for a few years to get pregnant. She wasn't charting, using opk's or any thing other than just sex but 2 years later she became pregnant only to lose the baby at 6 weeks. This was a few years ago. I know they have been trying to get pregnant again.
The night before New Year's Eve I had a dream that I saw on Facebook she was pregnant.
I saw her at my sisters on New Year's Eve. She wasn't drinking (she said she had a headache) and she left early because she wasn't feeling well. Her and my sister seemed to have whispered conversations.
You know where I'm going with this conversation right?
So I have my suspicions and I say to my sister 'oh I forgot to tell M that I had a dream she was pregnant' and my sister gets this look on her face and says "can you keep a secret?"
And I knew.
I'm really happy for her. I like this girl and she deserves it. She will be a fantastic mom. I would never actually have told her about the dream because I know it's a sensitive topic. I'll tell her after she announces it though.
On of the ttgp girls posted on her blog something along the lines of this recently (I can't remember who or I would give you credit. Tell me of its you). I know I've only been trying for a short time (I think it was 6 or 7 months), and there are women who try for years, and so I shouldn't complain, but it doesn't make it any easier each month. If I knew it would take time I could deal with it, but its the unknow that is what is difficult. The wondering every month if this is it.
I just wanted to say it struck a cord with me, so thank you for the honesty.